ALL MEN who are reading this.... this only takes 40 seconds to read, I am pleading for help.

I worry that the OP isn’t a teenager because she phrased the OP with “Men” instead of “Guys”.

can you plead a little louder?

can you? :mad:

Oh god my eyes are bleeding…

OP - Serious question, have you ever HAD a boyfriend before? That is a totally normal thought for a boy to have (especially after a teasing comment about the shower - really, that’s not nice) and your reaction is totally ok (don’t do sexting, ever. The internet (and cellphones do count) always remembers).

But this whole posting thing (especially months later… wtf?) is a major overreaction on your part. You shut him down, he agreed, he still wants to be with you - work it out from there.

Just don’t be silly enough to think that he DOESN’T want to see you naked pretty much all the time. (Also, don’t think you’re special. He *also *wants to see his hot biology teacher and that girl down the street and the cheerleader in first period naked. He’s not picky.)

So a girl, events and photos … can someone help me with “sketchy” here? Not getting the connection between “badly drawn” and … whatever the hell the OP means by it. Any remotely interesting derivation, or is it as simple as it’s a word sounding a bit like a cross between “sexy” and “skeevy”?

Sketchy. I’d question the “college kid” thing, though. I’ve been using that neologism for decades ( I think ).

26 here and sketchy has always meant untrustworthy, unscrupulous, skeevy, creepy, etc.

If you choose to take this advice, SHOW HIM YOUR BOOBS IN PERSON!!! DO NOT TAKE A PHOTOGRAPH OF YOUR BOOBS AND SEND IT TO HIM OR ANYONE ELSE!

Daughters in their twenties here. Don’t put anything on the internet you would not want your mom or dad to see. Period. Get with the dude in a controlled setting (family around not necessarily in the room) and see what he really wants. Then decide to go there or not. Your decision. Grow up and make one.

This really goes for anybody ever.

DO NOT PUT ANYTHING ANYWHERE ON THE INTERNET EVER YOU DON’T WANT SOMEBODY TO SEE. NOR TAKE A DIGITAL PICTURE OF IT (And even physical photographs are asking for trouble, though much less than digital)

The only time it MIGHT be safe is if it’s just text and you’re completely anonymous (i.e. 4chan where everyone is called “Anonymous”), and you’re behind a proxy.

And even then…

Or you know, don’t repeat the same story verbatim across the internet’s different fora.

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at least the last one got the full last sentence copy pasted:

Well, if she’s already gone to Yahoo! Answers, I don’t know what more we can hope to add to the discussion.

I actually searched key phrases from the OP immediately when I first read it- your findings being my very first suspicion. I didn’t get any results, however.

It seems she posted here first, which is why I thought she was different and special. But now that she’s been flashing herself all over the internet, I think she seems sketchy, like she wants to just mess around or have a “fun time”.

If this board ever adopts a “facepalm” smiley, I may never need to post another word.

:smack::smack::smack:

Like this?

If only there were some way for Vinyl Turnip to show an appropriate reaction to your post…

laughing out of our loud? Laughing out Out OUT LOUD? Laughing or Orating Out Loud?

You know what? Don’t answer it. I don’t even care.

PM me.

I think I want those 40 seconds of my life back.

Honestly, I had to read it a few times. It took longer than 40 seconds for me.