What do you mean by “go time?” What would constitute an appropriate response in your mind and what would be going too far?
Would you beat a woman unconscious? Would you kill her?
Look, I’m not saying you have to be nice to a person who does that, or that you have to allow it.
A slap of the hand and a “get the fuck away from me” is an appropriate response. If the person stops at that point then no further force is justified.
Wait.
I can walk right behind a girl into the bathroom and grab her titty, and all she’s allowed to do is slap my hand and say “get the fuck away from me”? If I then stop trying to grab her titty, she has no further recourse?
Cool! Time to get to work!
Depends upon whether my reaction leads to some more aggression on the behalf of my attacker.
Again, it depends upon what the result of my reaction is. I really can’t say, except to say that I am in agreement with you about proportionality of response for the most part.
You forgot about the part where the cops are called and the guy/girl is hauled off for sexual assault or whatever the charge is.
Nevermind, I don’t want to fight.
You didn’t say, “no further recourse”, rather “no further force”.
Carry on.
I didn’t say she has no further recourse. What I’m saying is that she is no longer justified in using physical force.
Like Airman said, legal recourse is a whole different matter.
Simulpost.
Cool enough. Thanks for not flying off the handle before reading my second post.
Well, you’re right about one thing. I think your first iteration of the story is simply a fantasy of what you’ve always hoped you’d do if one of those sick faggots mauled your goodies. Not least because I have a hard time believing a strong enough argument for self defence could be made that charges wouldn’t be worth pursuing. Some of the other legal details sound fishy too.
The sequel (because they really are two different stories) was an hysterical and shocked reaction to the disapproval you just didn’t expect to be coming. I’m thinking you were expecting people to be commending your father and lots of cheers of right on!
I think it is largely ineffectual, impotent guys that work up these scenarios in their heads so there’s no real need to worry about them but if Dadnasty really did do this then he should have done some time. Can people have their head repeatedly slammed into a urinal and not be tremendously fucked up by it?
Yes. Don’t ask how I know.
OK, I won’t ask but just assume. I will ask if you’ve had a doctor confirm it though? 
Gosh it really is nicer in the ladies ‘powder room’, much less yelling.
Ah. Thanks for clearing that up so I don’t waste my time replying to your ludicrous initial non-response. Thanks also for showing us that you own your own homophobia.
You know Brutus just likes stirring the pot.
You must like the sound of that word, since you sure as fuck have no idea what it means.
Not at all. I just have a serious problem with the concept that reacting violently to sexual assault makes someone a ‘homophobe’.
Do you feel there are crimes apart from sexual assault where a response needn’t be limited to what is proportionate?
Oh don’t get me wrong sexual assault is a serious thing. I don’t know that we all react violently though (even if we should). I was just talking about your “cheeky” way of chucking the word racist into the mix.
Unanswerable, really. Different situations generally call for different responses. We are talking about a very specific situation here.
Some people here need to use some fucking common sense. When your naughty bits are grabbed while you are standing at a urinal, a elbow back and into the face of the golden-shower Casanova would certainly strike me as a ‘common sense’ response. A person is not going to ask nicely, “Sir, the weiner you are holding appears to be mine; Would you kindly unhand it?”
Hey, if getting your periscope grabbed while taking a leak (or doing the grabbing, for that matter) is what gets you going, fine. But just like enthustiasts of the Dirty Sanchez are best practicing their kink in the privacy of their own homes, leaky-pipe grabbers would do well to try the same. Or have some sort of club where half the people grab rods while the other half pees. Doing it in a public environment is pretty much guaranteed to evoke a harsh reaction from the non-‘Unit grabbed while peeing’ fetishists.
Suppose the grabber was a man, and the grabee was a woman. Then what?
Oh, well then. I thought you were getting Brutophobic on me…