Yeah, just look what happened to the Smart family.
Those morons had it coming.
Not the smartest (heh) thing to do, but the family certainly didn’t deserve it, especially Elizabeth. Even so, bringing a stranger into your home is irresponsible and dangerous parenting.
Ooops. Sorry. Was that too tactless?
My, aren’t you the (sarcastic) drama queen?
Why yes, yes I am. Do I get to wear a tiara?
Feel free to get the fuck off the cross anytime now hun.
The OP was in a tough situation, and finally made some steps to remedy it, and you come in here like some rag calling him spineless.
Just because you can be an ass is the pit doesn’t mean it’s appropriate 100% of the time.
Start playing an instrument. Perhaps the three of you could form a trio.
There’s nothing like listening to a novice rehearse to get an unwanted guest motivated. Worked wonders with my mother-in-law.
mazirian, you jerk, the Smart family didn’t bring the kidnapper to reside in their home.
Why yes, yes I am. Do I get to wear a tiara?
Get off the cross? You think I was seriously apologizing? Not too bright, are ya. :::WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOSH!:::
I came in and gave my honest opinion that bringin a stranger into your home is potentially dangerous (especially to his child) and that he needs to grow a backbone and kick the loser out. I didn’t called names and I didn’t swear. I do however still stand by everything I said regarding the OP before you came in like the whining little busybody that you are. He needs to grow a backbone and stop letting this guy take advantage over him and his family. You don’t feel the same? Big whoopdeedoo.
If you think I was being an ass in that post, me thinks you are much too sensitive. Did you cry when E.T. died? Do you listen to Barry Manilow? Do you need a tissue?
Grow the fuck up and realize that life isn’t always butterflies and flowers and that some people are going to have a difference of opinion. It’ll make life much easier for you and a lot less stressful.
Would you have hired Brian David Mitchell to repair your roof or David Koresh to fix the plumbing?
Look, you stupid little fuck, prior to anyone knowing about their murderous ways, folks did hire them to perform labor.
And, since you obviously don’t know jack about reality, let me explain one little fact to you: roof repair & plumbing repair ARE NOT RESIDING IN SOMEONE’S HOME!
And what you don’t realize, most likely because you are a dizzy bitch, is that perhaps it wasn’t the appropriate time to tell someone to “grow a backbone”. I suppose people with alcohol and drug addictions should grow a fucking backbone as well.
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Ah yes, whining busybody = person offering positive advice.
Stay away from social work.
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I don’t have a problem with the message, just the way it was delivered.
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So if I think you are a cunt that makes me oversensitive? What color is the sky in your world? Plaid?
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Oh shut the fuck up. You need to realize that there are better ways to go through life then as a tactless loudmouth bitch.
Funny, I don’t see the OP doing any of those things. The OP is frustrated and asking for advice, I don’t see any begging for hugs.
As much as I don’t want to help Diane in taking over yet another thread with her explosive diarrhea, I do want to address her point.
I would definately allow “strangers” to come into my home, especially if they’re internet friends. I have also been the stranger in someone else’s home. This can be accomplished by anyone with moderation and common sense.
Heck, I up and moved to DC to take residence with an acquantaince I hardly knew and I’d only met once before. Guess what? Neither of us have killed each other in a fit of sociopathic rage.
star’s rant was not about unwittingly inviting a zombie of EVIL and DOOM into her household. She has acted with extreme politeness. This was a great thread until Diane and forced me to experience the shame of agreeing with something World Eater said. Here’s to hoping star’ll close this one and keep us updated in MPSIMS.
Shit, I know what a verandah is.
Jessity, I wasn’t talking to Star but addressing World Eater. Go back and read the thread.
Yer life.
However, I feel that anyone who brings a stranger that they have only known FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS - not a pen pal, not an internet pal, but a stranger - into their home with their child is a fool.
It’s called being a decent human being. It’s called having compassion.
There was never a time that we were going to simply tell him to fuck off. He is not dangerous, do you think we would let anyone near our home like that?
It’s not about being weak, it is finding a way to end this frustration while maintaining the guys dignity in a strange country where he knows no one, and is trying to get his shit together.
Knowing that he is affecting our sanity, seems at the moment to be enough for him to get his arse moving.
fingers crossed.
Sounds good.
Maybe I am living in the Twilight Zone, but someone please tell me that they see something wrong and potentially dangerous with the following OP snips.
Can anyone answer that with some civility or are we gonna continue the pissing or shall I say diarrhea match?
Maybe he isn’t dangerous, but how did you know this for certain?
Maintain this guy’s dignity? You mean before or after he mooches you out of house, home, and spirit?
Maybe I am living in the Twilight Zone, but someone please tell me that they see something wrong and potentially dangerous with the following OP snips.
Can anyone answer that with some civility or are we gonna continue the pissing or shall I say diarrhea match?
Maybe he isn’t dangerous, but how did you know this for certain?
Maintain this guy’s dignity? You mean before or after he mooches you out of house, home, and spirit?
I’m gonna have to agree with Diane to a certain extent here.
I’m certain you did what you did with the best of intentions and it’s cool to see that somewhere in this world people are still willing to help out strangers, but as the mother of a 9 yr old, I can’t quite get my head around “We let him move in with us and our child”
I mean… letting someone crash at your apartment when you’re all in college and sleep with your wallet in your back pocket is one thing, but to trust a near stranger around your child while you’re sleeping is a whole different story.
Eff the backbone, grow a strong sense of responsibility and be protective of your kid, huh?