Hey Badazz- You say:
Followed by:
Damn women and their mixed signals! 
Seriously though, it sounds like someone lost a good one when he gave up you.
hey, dude, methinks that this chick ain’t at her cottage like someone says. your op has smell of a loser chick with you being in the infatuation mode. kick this one off. she ain’t doin you no favors…
appended is a link with some great articles for victims just such as yourself.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith/41_dating_advice.html
stop! that curt smith guy is some lightweight. not as good as this guy…
better link, same site
BadAzz and handsomeharry, stop it! You’ll just discourage him, and he may very well get a date with her. How many times could something have worked out, but didn’t, because some guy’s friends were hanging on the sidelines shooting the whole thing down?
I’ve read the good Doc’s advice before, and I do agree with a lot that he has to say. However, he makes the whole “degree of love” thing more complex than it has to be. How many guys are actually going to be able to read his book, then use all of these principals in real life?
You can’t change your whole personality (unless your a real jerk or a crybaby) in order to get a date. If you try, you will just come across as a fraud.
Although I seriously wanna try his “wingmen” theory sometime! 
Hey HandsomeHarry, why don’t you stop being a typical male asshole? It’s guys like you that gives males a bad name. I’m a little disgruntled with your sex right now anyway. How many times have you been used for sex for three months, then dumped unexpectedly? Yeah, thats what I thought.
You never get anywhere unless you take chances!!! Maybe D12 is some hottie… sounds nice enough to me!
“Don’t ever PAY for Internet porn.”
The thing with this & Playboy magazines is the women in them are always saying ‘Yes’ to the guy reading. Then the guy thinks all women say ‘Yes’ & when he finds out they don’t all say yes…
Some of the women that pick him, smokers, tomboys, Etc, would be fine to me.
Well, handy, he’s still young. By the time you get to my (and presumably your) ripe ages, you tend to realize character and personality outweigh a lot of presumed “faults.” 
What is a tomboy?
A tomboy is a girl who likes traditionally male things, like sports and cars, who doesn’t like to dress up in skirts and high heels, who rarely wears and makeup, who doesn’t fuss over her hair and nails.
My sister is a tomboy (she was a jet engine mechanic during the Vietnam War)–and she pulls guys easier and faster than I ever have. [sub]I think it’s the dimples.[/sub]
Thanks, squish. I get it now. Around here we call this kind of girl “failed/missed boys”. Curiously, I was rather attracted to this kind of girls, when I was a teenager…
The bell ends regulation time. d12 didn’t win. At least we’re still friends. Thanks alot dopers for the great advice!
Ah, poop; I was really rooting for you. Did she say why?
D12, you got a marriage proposal out of this thread! Doesn’t that make up for it?
Squish : She didn’t think of me anymore than just a friend.
LoupDeBois : You’ve got a point
Aww well, maybe one day I’ll find PerfectGirl. Maybe if I started to collect donations I could get a RealDoll.
Eh…Don’t sweat it dude. I take you back to my first post:
Get back out there and ask another one.
Then another.
Then another.
Etc.
And stop looking for the “perfect girl”. You don’t want to find her for a few more years. In the meantime, get some practice time in on the rest. (You will also find that your idea of “TPG” will change as you date more women)
Yes Coach!
I was talking to her sister and she mentioned that I’m too modest and not cocky enough. Any clues how I can become more cocky?
Cocky? Dunno about that… Confidence, a sense of humor, and just plain niceness always attract me to a man.
Cocky? Dunno about that… Confidence, a sense of humor, and just plain niceness always attract me to a man. As far as The Perfect Girl or The Perfect Man–sorry to tell you, but ain’t no such animal.
Just keep getting out there and talking to/asking out the girls you like. Concentrate on having fun, not on finding TPG. Experience is the best confidence builder, IME, not to mention helping you better KNOW who TPG for you is.
There’s a difference between cockiness and confidence/self-assuredness. The latter two are much more attractive. Cockiness can come off fake.
Rent “The Tao of Steve” (not that I’d ever recommend such behaviour ).